High Performance FatherHPF Summit · Session with Reine Clemow

The Legacy Gap

What dads are getting wrong about helping their kids financially.

Most dads have a clear intention: give their children a better start. The harder question is whether the financial decisions you're making today are actually designed to deliver it — without sacrificing your own freedom along the way.

01 · The five gaps

Where good intentions fall short

In the session we work through five places where a dad's plan for his family often breaks down. Score yourself honestly — the lowest score is usually where the biggest opportunity sits.

  1. 01 · Intention

    Wanting to give your kids a better start isn't a plan. What exactly do you want to make possible — and when?

  2. 02 · Time

    $500 a month from birth could grow to around $215,000 by 18. Start at age 10 and it's closer to $64,000. Waiting is expensive.

  3. 03 · Structure

    It's not only what you own, it's how you own it. Tax on kids' income, CGT on transfers and super death benefits can quietly erode what reaches them.

  4. 04 · Freedom

    Helping your children shouldn't cost you your own independence. Know your freedom number before you make promises.

  5. 05 · Action

    Good intentions, reviewed once and acted on, beat perfect plans that never leave the drawer.

02 · Work your numbers

The calculators

Open each one when we get to it in the session — or anytime afterwards. Each opens in a new tab, and you can email yourself a summary of your results to come back to.

03 · Missed the session?

Take the workbook home

The four-page Legacy Gap workbook walks you through the same thinking: what you want to make possible, the cost of waiting, the structure traps to recognise, and your family legacy blueprint.

Download the workbook (PDF)
If your children copied the way you make financial decisions today, would you be proud of the habits they inherited?

General information only. Personal circumstances, tax treatment and suitability vary. This material and the calculators are illustrative, are not a prediction, and are not personal financial advice.